So here you have mine! This is very vulnerable for me! I can’t believe I am going to share this! Looking at the list I have a long ways to go. A poem, song or a letter you write yourself. She then recommends you put it together in a resolution or declaration. It is to examine each part of your life–what you do today, tomorrow, next week, next year how you chose to spend the time with your lover–in the context of the whole, of what really matters most to you.” To live your life with the end in view is to align your daily and secret choices with this picture. This exercise will reveal to you what your deepest values are, who you want to become as a wife. She shares, “As you think deeply about these questions, write down your thoughts and feelings. Only you have control over your actions and how you choose to live. Kind of puts it into perspective don’t you think? She now asks you to answer these 4 questions as if you have died and share what YOU WANT your husband to say at your funeral. As you take a seat and look through the program and you see there is only one speaker and it is your husband. You’re stunned and your mind is flooded with all sorts of thoughts. She asked you to envision going to a funeral and as you walk up to the casket you see yourself. But for some reason, I felt this assignment I needed to do. A Lot of times I skip over the assignments, which makes me NOT my best student. Well, I decided to do the first assignment that Linda Dillow has in her book. I am learning so much! And the thought I get to share it with others makes me so happy! I feel so fortunate because I am being my own student. It is going along with all that I have been working on and studying. I am reading a book called, “What’s it like to be married to me” by Linda Dillow.
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